Today, I
received a call from a college-friend asking me for my postal address. She said
she needed it to send me my birthday gifts for this year! Now, all those who
regularly follow my blog must be aware by now that I am a big fan of birthdays!
However, with exactly a month to go before I turn 24 years old, I was a little
surprised to find myself not feeling a bit joyous about it. My friend on the
phone, perhaps noticing my indifference, remarked, “Are you upset about turning
a year older?” I couldn't help but smile on hearing that comment. I always crib
about turning old every year. However, this time, I don’t think that is the
case. I haven’t celebrated my birthday in a grand, elaborate manner since the
last three years. If it weren't for a select few people who demand a
treat, I’d probably be sitting at home on my birthday dressed in my PJs. As I
told my friend how tedious I think birthday celebrations are, she was
astounded, “You have changed so much post college!” I just smiled and told her,
“I don’t have anyone like you here to make this day special for me!” She
giggled and ranted on the phone about what she would do if she was in Mumbai
for my special occasion. For a while, I was transported back in time as I heard
her chatter. Before hanging up, she made me promise that I would make a
wish-list because, in the words of my dear friend, “Even if I am not around, my
best friend must have the time of her life!”
So yes, with
just a month to go, here is what I wish for this birthday:
- Happiness: Happiness
means different things to different people. I feel happy when I am valued.
I think one never needs a reason to spread smiles. This birthday, I want
to be happy by spreading happiness around me. I have decided to perform
some random acts of kindness during my birthday month. If you have any
suggestions on what these might be, feel free to send me your requests!
- Love: Sometimes
all it takes is a hug or a kiss or a concerned arm around your shoulder to
melt all your troubles away. I feel we are living in a world, today, that
is unfortunately characterized by indifference. On my birthday, if you
wish to make a difference in my world, please do not hesitate from
spreading love and brightening the lives of those individuals who you feel
are special to you (and if I am a special person in your life, please note
that I too need my share of love and affection!).
- Acceptance: We
all have a tendency to like people for the things they do that make our
life special. This birthday, I want to be accepted for who I am. It may
seem to be a rather humble request but when was the last time you were
able to accept someone unconditionally? I have flaws just like you do but
why let that come in the way of treating one another with
non-judgementality and unconditional positive regard.
These are the three wishes
I have. Three simple wishes, or am I asking for a lot?