"My
best friend is the one who brings out the best in me."
- Henry Ford
We all need friends to get on with life. So, if you are among the fortunate few who have been blessed with a special friend, hold on to that person and do not let them go. Love your best friend more than you love a lazy Sunday morning with breakfast in bed. Love them the way you love yourself and even more than your current romantic interest.
We all need friends to get on with life. So, if you are among the fortunate few who have been blessed with a special friend, hold on to that person and do not let them go. Love your best friend more than you love a lazy Sunday morning with breakfast in bed. Love them the way you love yourself and even more than your current romantic interest.
Love your best friend
because they know everything about you and love you nonetheless. They know when
you've had a lousy day judging by just your monosyllabic responses to text
messages and they know how to put you in a better mood. They know what you
really mean when you say "I'm fine" and they have their ways of
actually getting the truth out of you. Love your best friend because they know
all your secrets. They know the number of beats your heart is skipping despite
your so-called successful attempt at maintaining a straight face and calm
demeanor.
Love your best friend
because without them, you probably wouldn't be the person you are. Life has its
knack of giving you bad times mixed with the good and you and your best friend
would have been through a lot together. Your best friend cheered louder than
you when you got your first job. Every time your heart broke, they were there
to glue the shattered pieces back together.
Love your best friend even
when you are mad at them. Love them even if you want to hate them for
cancelling plans last minute or for not spending enough time with you. Instead
of cheering you up, even if they made you more miserable, love them anyway for
you cannot imagine your life without them. After all, they are also human and
they can be allowed to make some mistakes. And if they are your best friend,
they will obviously fix their goof-up later.
It's not enough to just
love them. You must tell them that you love them! Even when the two of you have
had a fight, tell them you love them so that they know the extent to which they
are valued in your life. It isn't easy but sometimes the relationship is more
important than what's right and wrong. Love them even if they never say it back
to you. Expression is not always their strongest cup of tea.
Thank your best friend. Thank them for tolerating you despite your extreme mood-swings. Thank them for bearing with you when you've been exceptionally quiet and distracted. Thank them for supporting you and abiding by your rules even when you have been unreasonable. Thank them for being themselves around you and thank them for believing in the best of you. It is because of them that you have learnt so much about yourself. Thank them not just for being there for you but for also loving you just as much.
Thank your best friend. Thank them for tolerating you despite your extreme mood-swings. Thank them for bearing with you when you've been exceptionally quiet and distracted. Thank them for supporting you and abiding by your rules even when you have been unreasonable. Thank them for being themselves around you and thank them for believing in the best of you. It is because of them that you have learnt so much about yourself. Thank them not just for being there for you but for also loving you just as much.